A Gratitude a Day…
For several years I wrote a post on Facebook I called my “daily gratitude post”. It was my way of both keeping my own sanity through the chaos and confusion of COVID, and putting a little positive energy out into the world on a regular basis. Eventually, I made the decision to cut back on my social media involvement, and move the gratitude post back to this blog, but it’s lost a certain element due to the difference in immediacy between Social Media and blogs. I’m no less grateful for the many blessings in my life, but the last few months have been challenging, so the positive element has undergone a bit of a shakedown.
As things begin settling into a new normal which has yet to be determined, I’m hoping to resume a more upbeat, and hopefully, entertaining tone to these posts. I know life will never be perfect, and there will be times when I struggle to keep my head up, and a smile on my face, but also know I’m not alone in this topsy-turvy game we play from birth to death, and perhaps, beyond.
For those of you who have stuck with me through the gloominess of the last couple of months, I send you a boatload of thanks. It means a lot to me that you came along for the ride when I wasn’t as uplifting as usual. Though I still have a ways to go as I adjust to what is, rather than what I thought it was, my feet are back on solid ground as I remember (or in some cases, was reminded) I can’t depend on others for emotional support, cheerleading, or anything else to lift my spirits. That’s totally on me.
Conquering Adversity is an Inside Job
I was also reminded I’ve always managed to bounce back on my own, no matter what kicked me to the curb, or threw me for a loop at the time. The key was, and always has been to stop looking outward for support or validation when a look in the mirror will always show me the person who has always been there to pick me up when I fall, nurse me back to health, and give me all the attagirls I could possibly want.
We’re all struggling at times. We’re all getting up, dusting ourselves off, and going in for another round over and over again. It’s not a reflection on me that I find myself completely alone from time to time. Everyone around me has their own challenges, be it personal health issues, financial issues, or caring for family members.
Pausing to Count My Blessings
In fact, in a lot of ways, I’m one of the lucky ones. My parents are gone so I don’t have their care to concern me. My kids are healthy so they don’t need me to help raise their kids. My health is good, due in no small part to my own stubbornness and refusal to sit around waiting for my body to heal. My sanity may hang by a thread at times, but I have my writing, and the people who comment on what I’ve written to reel me back in again. I have interesting, mentally challenging work which gives me purpose, and allows me to indulge myself now and then.
Reminding myself of my many blessings is the best way I know to appreciate what I have, and reduce the importance of what I don’t. If my life was perfect, I’d have nothing to relate to others with, and no way to connect. I couldn’t uplift anyone without stories of overcoming adversity. So even the moments of adversity are blessings in their own way. You can’t appreciate the light if you don’t experience darkness. You don’t recognize a blessing if you don’t endure a few curses.
So this is me, returning to my perfectly imperfect self, and appreciating every, single aspect of this roller coaster life.
Gratitude Shared is Gratitude Grown
My gratitudes today are:
- I’m grateful for all the highs and lows which make up my life.
- I’m grateful for remembering the woman in the mirror has always been there for me, and always will be.
- I’m grateful for the people who read my posts, and share their own experiences and perspectives.
- I’m grateful for beautiful, warm, breezy days for what are now regular, 2.6 mile walks.
- I’m grateful for finding my way back to the messily positive side of myself I’ve learned to know and love.
About the Author
Sheri Conaway is a Holistic Ghostwriter, and an advocate for cats and mental health. Sheri believes in the Laws of Attraction, but only if you are a participant rather than just an observer. Her mission is to Make Vulnerable Beautiful and help entrepreneurs touch the souls of their readers and clients so they can increase their impact and their income.
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